Friday, May 10, 2019

Grief as the 4th Realm--for Motherless Daughters


It's Mother's Day weekend. This season is very joyful for some and very difficult for others—when it seems the world has forgotten your pain and Hallmark gives you another reason to feel that it isn’t fair.

C.S. Lewis said, “Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, “What! You too? I thought I was the only one.” My hope is that you will find that “me too” moment with someone as you seek support through whatever that might look like for you—a faith community, a therapist, a friend who has walked a similar path.

Have you ever heard a song that said exactly what you would want to say? Or a movie that felt like your own story? Sometimes those “me too” moments show up in the least expected places. I saw a movie with my girls this winter that felt like such a beautiful portrayal of grief.  I am going to tell you the story of The Nutcracker and the Four Realms. It occurred to me as I watched it that maybe grief itself IS the fourth realm—that place that not everyone has been to, everyone will go eventually,  but that place that changes you in ways you didn’t know was possible. I wonder if you resonate with any of the themes.

The Nutracker tells the story of Clara, an imaginative child, who lived with her father, her responsible older sister, and her younger brother. Clara’s mother had just passed away just before Christmas. The story opens with Clara in her imaginary world in the attic where she could be whoever she wanted and escape what awaited—the first Christmas without Mother. When finally summoned downstairs, there were gifts that Mother had prepared for them to open after her death. (Do you find yourself dreading certain situations that you will know will be painful?)
 
As soon as Fritz, the younger brother, sets eyes on the decorated tree, he is immediately horrified. “It’s not how mother did it,” Fritz expresses with disdain. Everyone is silenced, understanding that they all had noticed and he was the only one willing to say it out loud. (Do traditions feel different for you now?)

Clara’s sister’s gift is a dress that had been one of her mother’s favorites. Father, who has spent much energy pretending everything is normal, seems to have a glimmer of emotion when she tries it on. His immediate response is to talk about the coming dance. “It’s important to do what’s expected of us.” (Has there been anyone in your life that seems to determined to go on as if nothing has changed?)

Clara’s gift is a music box with no key. It has a note that says, “Everything you need is inside.” Clara struggles to understand the meaning of the gift. (Have you struggled to find meaning in your loss?)

Clara protests doing what is expected. The world doesn’t make sense to her any more, and she is on a journey to find meaning. Her sister reprimands her:  “Maybe you should spend less time in the attic and more time in the real world.” (Have you ever felt rushed to “move on” and “get in the real world”?)

Father, determined to carry on as though nothing is different, requires the girls to dance with him at the party. Fritz, confused, asks: “But who will dance with me?” (Can you identify some of the roles your mother filled in your life that now feels like a hole?)

In the search of the key to the music box, Clara wanders off from the party and finds her godfather, who tries to help her understand that different people process their grief differently. “Some locks are harder to pick than others.” He also reminisces about Clara’s mother as a child—a scared orphan herself. Through her seeking she ends up in the 4th realm, where she begins to encounter other people whose experiences and relationships with her mother illuminated aspects of her mother that she never knew. First she meets the captain and finds out that her mother was Queen of that Realm. Clara, however, doesn’t know her place in this realm. She experiences anger, fear, and confusion. Time seems to be different. (Have you found yourself disoriented in the realm of grief? Does it seem like the rest of the world is going on at a different place? Have you learned more about your mother in her death than you knew in her life?)

Clara finds that she herself is the trigger for other people’s grief. People say things like, “You are every inch your mother’s daughter.” (Have you found that you have to help people process their grief when they see you?”

In the 4th realm, Clara finds that the safe people turn out to be different than who she expected. There is a lot of disappointment that people she thought she could trust weren’t there for her. (Have you been surprised at who has shown up for you in your grief?)

At the end of her journey through the 4th realm—through the pain and the disappointment and the fear and the confusion—she finds her way back to the people who are still in her life. “I will miss her every day of my life,” she says, “but I don’t want to miss one more minute with you or the others I love.” Despite her sadness, she is finally able to dance again.

Friends, you are forever changed by your journey to the 4th realm of grief and loss. You have met new friends who can companion with you and have been disappointed by others who weren’t there when you needed them. You may still be learning about your mother in ways that you never knew her while she was still here. You may still be finding your way—your place in this realm where other people seem to be just going on as normal.

C.S. Lewis writes, in A Grief Observed, “No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear. I am not afraid, but the sensation is like being afraid. The same fluttering in the stomach, the same restlessness, the yawning. I keep on swallowing.”

Brave friends, I know you will never “get over your loss,” but I want to encourage you that someday you will be able to dance again.

Saturday, June 28, 2014

The Third's a Charm

People often say that "The Third Time's a Charm." I think that's true--if by charm you mean that bewitched brain that makes you forget everything and not really even care that much. This is how my third charm looked at the pool this week. Swim trunks and dress shoes. No socks. Once upon a time I might have been frustrated. Or embarrassed. I just think it's kind of charming. Because that's what happens after the third.
 

Oh Give Me a Home

This time last week I was getting my last few hours of sleep before waking up the family at 4:30 a.m. and setting off on #simmonsadventure2014 (our hashtag for the trip). Several years ago we decided to save the money we used to spend buying every person in our family Christmas gifts so we could take family trips. Apparently we didn't spend that much because we've only had 2 trips so far. When Little Sissy was 5 months old, we went on a cruise. After much anticipation, we FINALLY got to plan our latest trip to see my brother in Park City, UT. None of the kids remember ever being on a plane (Big Sissy was about 6 months old when we flew to Houston to see friends), so watching the children take it all in from the window seat was a fun experience.
 
 
After an hour delay getting started and a long trip with Big Sissy feverish and suffering from stomach pain, we finally arrived. We got our rental car and drove into Heber City, where none of us had cell phone service (a blessing in disguise because we spent some good quality face-to-face time with each other). Just before we arrived at our cabin, we passed a pond where this moose was drinking and frolicking as if to welcome us to our home for the week. It. was. amazing.

 
Sunday we had lunch with Bill's (he wants us to call him by this grown-up name now) special girl Leah. Then Mom took Big Sissy and I to urgent care and then the hospital because her symptoms were looking suspiciously like appendicitis. We spent most of the afternoon there while everyone else went to a festival in Park City. Thankfully, it turned out to be a stomach virus that she was totally over by the next day, and we were able to do a gorgeous hike in the Uintas. It was a bonus that the grocery story we were meeting Bill and Leah at had a Starbucks inside, so we got our day off to a good start.
 

 
If I could repeat any part of the trip, it would probably be the hiking. I love being in nature. I love the trees all around me. I love the smell of the mountain air. I love the sound of the waterfall. I did not love that I felt like I was having a panic attack because I wasn't adjusted to the altitude yet. That might explain the less than enthusiastic look on my face in an otherwise perfect picture. 

Besides hiking and going down an alpine slide, the other thing I wanted to do on the trip was to take a train through the scenic Heber Valley. Since we didn't have Wi-Fi, by the time we were able to book the trip they were all full. We remedied that by taking our own scenic drive, which was even better because we could stop and take cousin photos along the way. My sister, who had gone a week earlier to spend time in Colorado before the Utah leg of the journey, mentioned at one point that she was getting homesick. I pondered that a little and realized that I really only get homesick for people, not really for my actual home. I don't know if that's because I feel like my home is so flawed or just because I value relationships so much. But I felt like most of the people that I get the most homesick for were with me on this trip. I wouldn't trade the memories and the time together for anything in the world.
 

 
Dad and Mom did so much to make this trip perfect--buying the plane tickets, contributing funds, watching kids, cooking meals, etc. I am so grateful for these two. Dad started having some health trouble as soon as we got back, and it made me even more thankful for our family and the time that we had together.

 
We didn't stay at the Waldorf--where Bill works--but we did get a tour. It was gorgeous, and its beauty was enhanced by the giant snowflakes that started falling unexpectedly that day. We were completely unprepared, but it was kind of a summer gift to us--especially the kids who got to have a snowball fight and pretend to be Anna and Elsa from Frozen.

 
On Thursday we spent the day at Park City Mountain Resort, where we could zip line, do an alpine coaster, alpine slide, miniature golf, climb a rock wall, etc. This was our view from the ski lift. Those clear paths are the ski slopes that stay busy all winter long.

 
Friday we checked out of our cute cabin and headed to Salt Lake City. Antelope Island just begged us to belt out "Home on the Range" in our 15-passenger van because the buffalo (actually bison) were roaming everywhere. And the antelope were playing. Really.



 
Saturday was a bittersweet day as we got to sleep in our own beds but wake up to just our little family of 5 again. While we were at the airport, though, we did capture another cake to celebrate St. Louis' 250th birthday. I think this makes #54 for STL250 cakes for us. At least we have a hobby to work on now that we're home.


Home on the range...where seldom is heard a discouraging word. I could definitely live there.

Saturday, February 8, 2014

Frozen World Tour

It all started when I woke up Friday morning with a wild hair--literally. I had gone to bed with a braid in my hair. Thursday was a super cold day, and I had had a knit headband rubbing my head all day. By the time Friday morning came, my braid was big and poofy. It looked just like Queen Elsa during her "Let it Go" scene in Frozen. I posted in on Facebook, letting everyone know (tongue in cheek) that I was going on a Disney World Tour with Frozen.



That was hilarious enough to keep me entertained for hours, but then...it got funnier when this showed up from my sister an hour or so later. Her caption said, "I guess I will be joining my sister on the Disney Frozen world tour. She'll be gorgeous Elsa. And I'll be a dude."


The next morning we had a birthday party for my other sister's little one and she was laughing about her own favorite bedhead picture, which led to this. Her caption said, "Good morning! It's Coronation Day! I'll be joining my sisters, Elsa and Kristoff, in the Frozen cast."


Well, with all three sisters in the cast, we wanted our brother to join us. So with some coaxing, we talked him into playing the part of Prince Hans. We were so glad he could join the fun even from Utah.


 And just when I thought I couldn't laugh any more...and this family just couldn't possibly produce any more hilarity for one day...this arrives in my newsfeed. The Summer Blowout scene in Frozen is one of my favorites, and my family always says to each other, "Yoo hoo, family." This caption said, "Yoo hoo. Come join the Frozen cast."


We only have 2 brothers-in-law left to join the cast. I can't stand the suspense. Thank you for supporting the super cold, super bored family as we embark on our new Frozen World Tour. Our brains will surely thaw out when spring comes. Until then..."Good night and don't let the frostbite bite."

Friday, January 24, 2014

Frozen Crazy

 
 
 
It's  been a long time since my children were so into something that's all they think about, talk about, dream about, etc.--maybe since Little Sissy loved The Three Little Pigs so much we had to stop reading it every night because she was starting to have Big Bad Wolf Nightmares. Don't get me wrong. They really, really have enjoyed things--Little Mermaid, Legos, etc. But nothing compares to how much they have gotten into the new animated Disney film Frozen. Nothing. The thing is that I don't mind because I love it too. The story is good. The costumes are fun. The music is captivating. And let's not forget that they've had 6 snow days on top of 2 weeks of Christmas break plus MLK Day so far and it gives them something to focus on. At first they just wanted to wear the costumes and sing some of the songs.
 
Anna, Olaf the Snowman, and Elsa

 
 
Here is Big Sissy singing "Let It Go." 

 
 
After they recorded themselves singing their favorite songs, they decided to act out the ENTIRE movie using their stuffed animals. I have not obtained permission to publish those videos--at least not yet--but here are some of the photos. I love this creative team.
 

 
Christoff and Sven the Reindeer
 
 
 
"Psssst. The sun's awake so I'm awake. Do you want to build a snowman?"
 
 
"I'm Olaf, and I like warm hugs."
 


"I know where we have to go."
 


 "It's getting lonely here. I'm starting to talk to the pictures on the wall. Hang in there, Joan."



Coronation Day.
 "Conceal. Don't feel."
"Ahem. The gloves, Your Majesty."

 
The Duke of Weaseltown and his toupee.

 
Prince Hans and Anna.
"Can I say something crazy? Will you marry me?"
"Can I say something crazier? Yes!"



Anna--I mean Little Sissy--ready for school today.
 

Stay tuned for Part II as more scenes are added! And for your enjoyment, a clip from the movie itself.

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Celebrating the Advent with Children

I shared on Facebook that I did not grow up doing an Advent calendar, so when I tried to figure out what to do (I wanted more than a lift-a-flap-for-chocolate-every-day calendar), I was sort of at a loss. It's been a couple of years in the works, but I finally have an advent calendar that is going to be fun and age-appropriate for my little people. Feel free to use what you want, adapt what you need to, and add your own personal touch. Younger ones will enjoy making crafts to go along with each day and finding the "hiding" pieces to the nativity scene. I was disappointed to find that the donkey is not actually in the Bible accounts of the Christmas story. In fact, it doesn't appear in connection with Jesus until the Triumphal Entry. I chose not to use the donkey as part of the nativity scavenger hunt, but feel free to use it if you find an activity that does not suit your family and it needs replaced.

I made my own Advent calendar out of a muffin tin. I bought a magnet sheet and cut circles to cover each muffin compartment, then I decorated it with Christmas scrapbook paper and numbers I cut out of foam.



I typed the "say aloud" parts of the script, cut them out, and put them in the appropriate compartment for each day of December leading up to Christmas.

 
To do this exactly like I did (which you don't need to, of course), you will need two books for each child (or one book and a personal letter), dark chocolate, flashlights, characters from the nativity scene or pictures of them (Mary, Joseph, 2 angels, 3 wise men, stable, manger), candy canes, treasures from when kids were a baby, coins, Christmas music, star-shaped treat or craft, coins for each child, bubble bath or bath salts, grapefruit, crown activity, Lifesavers, and a game the family can play together. And a Bible, of course. I hope you and your family enjoy the Advent season!

1.       Read John 1:1-2.
“In the beginning, the Word was already there. The Word was with God, and the Word was God.
He was with God in the beginning.”


Before time began, God had a plan to save the world. Jesus was already with God in heaven. (We gave watches to our children that we had bought them as gifts. Other ideas include giving each child a wrapped Christmas book or a personal letter so they have their own words from you about the advent season. Or you could do a scavenger hunt with a watch.)

 

2.       Read John 1:3-5
“All things were made through him. Nothing that has been made was made without hi. Life was in him, and that life was the light for all people. The light shines in the darkness. But the darkness has not understood it.”

God knew that darkness and sin would enter the world through Adam and Eve, and we would need a Savior. Let’s enjoy some dark chocolate to remember the darkness that was in the world before Jesus came. (Other ideas:  have hot chocolate, have a bath in darkness and play with Glo Sticks)


3.       Read John 1:6-9
“A man came who was sent from God. His name was John. He came to give witness about that light. He gave witness so that all people could believe. John himself was not the light. He came only as a witness to the light. The true light that gives light to every man was coming into the world.”

Jesus would be the light to take away darkness. Let’s have 10 minutes of extra flashlight time in bed to celebrate Jesus being the Light of the world. (Or play flashlight tag or have everyone hold a flashlight while you tell bedtime stories)

 

4.       Read Luke 1:26-38.
“In the sixth month after Elizabeth had become pregnant (with John, who we talked about earlier), God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee. He was sent to a virgin. The girl was engaged to a man named Joseph. He came from the family line of David. The virgin’s name was Mary.

The angel greeted her and said, “The Lord has given you special favor. He is with you.” Mary was very upset because of his words. She wondered what kind of greeting this could be. But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary. God is very pleased with you. You will become pregnant and give birth to a son. You must name him Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High God. The Lord God will make him a king like his father David of long ago. He will rule forever over his people, who came from Jacob’s family. His kingdom will never end.

“How can this happen?” Mary asked the angel. “I am a virgin.” The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come to you. The power of the Most High God will cover you. So the holy one that is born will be called the Son of God. Your relative Elizabeth is old. And even she is going to have a child. People thought she could not have children. But she has been pregnant for six months now. Nothing is impossible with God.”

“I serve the Lord,” Mary answered. “May it happen to me just as you said it would.” Then the angel left her.


An angel appeared to Mary, a young unmarried woman, and told her she was going to have a child. Let’s do a scavenger hunt and find Mary. (You can hid a piece of your nativity set or use a picture)

An angel appeared to Mary that day.

Find Mary where the youngest women in our house stay.

 

5.       Read again the passage about the angel appearing to Mary.

The angel said she was to name the child Jesus, and He would be the Son of God. Let’s do a scavenger hunt to find the angel.

                Gabriel told Mary not to be afraid.

 Find the angel where we find God’s words to us today.


6.       Read Mathew 1:18
This is how the birth of Jesus Christ came about. His mother Mary and Joseph had promised to get married. But before they started to live together, it became clear that she was going to have a baby. She became pregnant by the power of the Holy Spirit. Her husband Joseph was a godly man. He did not want to put her to shame in public. So he planned to divorce her quietly. But as Joseph was thinking about this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream. The angel said, “Joseph, son of David, don’t be afraid to take Mary home as your wife. The baby inside her is from the Holy Spirit. She is going to have a son. You must give him the name Jesus. That is because he will save the people from their sins.”

Mary was afraid to tell Joseph that she was pregnant because they weren’t married yet. He could have had her put to death, but he was very kind to her even though he didn’t understand it all. Find Joseph where your kind Daddy sleeps.


7.       Read Luke 2:1-5
In those days, Caesar Augustus made a law. It required that a list be made of everyone in the whole Roman world. It was the first time a list was made of the people while Quirinius was governor of Syria. All went to their own towns to be listed. So Joseph went also. He went from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea. That is where Bethlehem, the town of David, was. Joseph went there because he belonged to the family line of David. He went there with Mary to be listed. Mary was engaged to him. She was expecting a baby.

Mary and Joseph headed to Bethlehem so they could be counted for a census so that the Caesar would know how powerful he was and how many people would pay their taxes to him. Please receive the gift of money to remember Mary and Joseph’s trip to Bethlehem for the census.


8.       Read Luke 2:6-7
While Joseph and Mary were there, the time came for the child to be born. She gave birth to her first baby. It was a boy. She wrapped him in large strips of cloth. Then she placed him in a manger. There was no room for them in the inn.

There were no inns available, but a kind innkeeper let them stay in his stable.
                The stable is where Baby Jesus slept his first night.
                Find our stable where we keep suitcases for a flight.


9.       Read Luke 2:6-7 again.

Baby
Jesus was born in the stable, and Mary wrapped him in warm blankets.
                Being born in a stable isn’t quite the norm.
                Find Baby Jesus where he can keep very warm.


10.   Read Luke 2:6-7 again.

Baby Jesus slept in a manger bed full of hay.
                A manger would feed the cows and the sheep.
                Find the manger where our baby boy sleeps.


11.   Read Luke 2:8-12
There were shepherds living out in the fields nearby. It was night, and they were looking after their sheep. An angel of the Lord appeared to them. And the glory of the Lord shone around them. They were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy. It is for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you. He is Christ the Lord. Here is how you will know I am telling you the truth. You will find a baby wrapped in strips of cloth and lying in a manger.

The shepherds were out taking care of their sheep when an angel told them the good news. These candy canes are shaped like a shepherd’s staff and will remind us of the shepherds in the field who were working hard at every day jobs when they received the Good News. (If it’s not a school night, you might want to “camp out in the fields” by letting the family sleep in sleeping bags in the living room. I also would like to make baby blankets to donate to the crisis nursery.)


12.   Read Luke 2:13-18
Suddenly a large group of angels from heaven also appeared. They were praising God. They said, “May glory be given to God in the highest heaven! And may peace be given to those he is pleased with on earth!”

The angels left and went into heaven. Then the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem. Let’s see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.” So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph and the baby. The baby was lying in the manger. After the shepherds had seen him, they told everyone. They reported what the angel had said about this child. All who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them.

The shepherds told everyone about the Baby Jesus being born. Let’s act out the story of Jesus’ birth to retell the story. (You can also retell the story with puppets or have kids create a news report.)

 

13.   Read Luke 2:19
But Mary kept all these things like a secret treasure in her heart. She thought about them over and over.

Let’s get out your baby books and look at things that I treasured from when you were a baby. (You can also give a Dove Treasure candy, a trinket, or a coin).


14.   Read Luke 2:13-14 again.

The angels sang praises to God, and the shepherds rejoiced with them. Let’s listen to our favorite Christmas music and sing praises to God too. Then we will search for the second angel in our nativity.
                The angels sang together in a large group.
                Find the angel where we keep some soup.


15.   Read Matthew 2:1-8
Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea. This happened while Herod was king of Judea. After Jesus’ birth, Wise Men from the east came to Jerusalem. They asked, “Where is the child who has been born to be king of the Jews? When we were in the east, we saw his star. Now we have come to worship him.”

When King Herod heard about it, he was very upset. Everyone in Jerusalem was troubled too. So Herod called together all the chief priests of the people. He also called the teachers of the law. He asked them where the Christ was going to be born. “In Bethlehem in Judea,” they replied. “This is what the prophet has written. He said, “But you, Bethlehem, in the land of Judah, are certainly not the least important among the towns of Judah. A ruler will come out of you. He will be the shepherd of my people Israel.’”


Then Herod called for the Wise Men secretly. He found out from them exactly when the star had appeared. He sent them to Bethlehem. He said, “Go! Make a careful search for the child. As soon as you find him, bring me a report. Then I can go and worship him too.”

King Herod was searching for Jesus, pretending that he wanted to worship him. Let’s search for words from the Christmas story in this word search puzzle. (Make your own word search puzzle at http://puzzlemaker.discoveryeducation.com/WordSearchSetupForm.asp . For younger kids you can do a lift-the-flap book or play hide-and-seek. )

 

16.   Read Matthew 2:9-12
After the Wise Men had listened to the king, they went on their way. The star they had seen when they were in the east went ahead of them. It finally stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were filled with joy. The Wise Men went to the house. There they saw the child with his mother Mary. They bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures. They gave him gold, incense, and myrrh. But God warned them in a dream not to go back to Herod. So they returned to their country on a different road.

The wise men followed the star to find Jesus when He was a toddler. Tonight we are going to make some star-shaped cookies to remember how God led the Wise Men. (You could also eat a STARburst candy, go outside and look at the stars, or make a star-shaped craft.)

 

17.   The first Wise Man brought Jesus a gift of gold. Take these shiny coins to remind you of the gold that the Wise Men brought Jesus. Then find our first Wise Man.
                A gift of gold the Wise Men did bring.
                Our Wise Man is hiding in a baseball bank thing.

 

18.   The second Wise Man brought Jesus a gift of incense. Incense made things smell good. Tonight you get to take a bath with fragrant bath salts. As you soak in the tub, remember the fragrant gift the Wise Man brought to Jesus. Then find our second Wise Man.
                The incense gave things a good smell.
                Our Wise Man is hiding with the bath gel.

 

19.   The third Wise Man brought Jesus a gift of myrrh. Myrrh was a spice that was probably later used on Jesus’ body after He was crucified. Though it smelled good, it was bitter because it foreshadowed the sacrifice that Jesus would make later for our sins. Tonight we will have a snack of grapefruit, which is both sweet and bitter, and remember the gift of myrrh. Then find our third Wise Man.
                Myrrh was a gift that smelled really nice.
                Our Wise Man is hiding where we keep our spice.


20.   Read Matthew 2:13-16
When the Wise Men had left, Joseph had a dream. In the dream an angel of the Lord appeared to him. “Get up!” the angel said. “Take the child and his mother and escape to Egypt. Stay there until I tell you to come back. Herod is going to search for the child. He wants to kill him.

Joseph got up. During the night, he left for Egypt with the child and his mother Mary. They stayed there until King Herod died. So the words the Lord had spoken through the prophet came true. He had said, “I chose to bring my son out of Egypt.”

Herod realized that the Wise Men had tricked him. So he became very angry. He gave orders concerning Bethlehem and the area around it. All the boys two years old and under were to be killed. This agreed with the time when the Wise Men had seen the star.

The wicked King Herod wanted the wise men to tell him where Jesus was, but they didn’t. Nobody could kill King Jesus without his permission. Tonight we are going to play Checkers to see who will be kinged. (You could also go to Burger King, decorate paper crowns, or play King of the Mountain).


21.   Read John 3:16. Jesus’ birth brought to us the greatest gift of all, the gift of salvation. For those who believe in Him, He is our lifesaver. Let’s enjoy some Lifesavers to remember who truly saves our lives from sin.


22.   Even though Jesus was the Son of God, He spent a lot of time learning God’s Word in the Temple. Today we will go to church to celebrate the birth of our Savior and learn more about God’s Word.

 

23.   Read Luke 2:39-40
Joseph and Mary did everything the Law of the Lord required. Then they returned to Galilee. They went to their own town of Nazareth. And the child grew and became strong. He was very wise. He was blessed by God’s grace.

One way we become wise is by reading books. Tonight you get a new book to read as you remember that Jesus grew in wisdom through the years.


24.   1 Corinthians 1:18 says that the gospel is foolishness to those who reject it. They think it’s just a game. We will enjoy a game together tonight but remember that the cross—to us who are being saved—is the power of God. This is the real thing—not a game!

Saturday, March 23, 2013

The Circus is in Town!

I am loving how the kids reenact all the fun events in their life lately. After we dogsat for a few days, they created dog food, water bowls, and beds for their stuffed animals. After watching Milo and Otis, their stuffed animals had puppies and kittens. After seeing the dog show at Purina Farms this week, they created an obstacle course in our living room for their animals. Now it's the circus. Some friends gave us tickets, and my in-laws took them to the circus last night. Since they got home pretty late, they weren't able to tell us much about it. But today, we got to see it through their eyes. It was very fun to see how they interpreted what they saw.
 
Meet Curly the Clown. He is perfect for the job!
 


 
And Little Sissy, Tightrope Walker and Animal Trainer

 
Little Sissy's best trained lion jumping through the fiery hoop

 
The whole crew: Curly the Clown, the Mistress of Ceremonies, and Animal Trainer/Acrobat